tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7041507329855318045.post4999257162184957530..comments2011-06-16T22:30:07.092-07:00Comments on BJ Adoptee Blogette: The Alternate SelfBJ Liftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16554383117906614401noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7041507329855318045.post-21332449466174380472010-06-27T18:09:36.711-07:002010-06-27T18:09:36.711-07:00Or not, never able to view my adopters as gatekeep...Or not, never able to view my adopters as gatekeepers which continues to give them the power.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7041507329855318045.post-37185842753756070242010-06-27T10:10:26.826-07:002010-06-27T10:10:26.826-07:00"They say they want to see their mother’s fac..."They say they want to see their mother’s face. They say they want to know who they are. They say they want to know why they were given up. "<br /><br />This was the reason I went.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7041507329855318045.post-31503865646361725032010-06-20T23:53:44.256-07:002010-06-20T23:53:44.256-07:00Absolutely beautiful...may I share?Absolutely beautiful...may I share?Heather @ Adoption Registry Magazinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01183420360087979802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7041507329855318045.post-20456060160306361852010-06-17T20:52:50.928-07:002010-06-17T20:52:50.928-07:00As someone struggling with rejection a second time...As someone struggling with rejection a second time around, your words provide a helpful framework in making sense of what I had, what I have, what I have lost, and what I hoped to find. My aparents have risen to the crisis and are providing support I never dared hope for. Being adopted is definitely a challenging, ongoing psychological process.<br /><br />I don't regret my search, though. Knowledge is both power and pain, and I accept that.ms. marginaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03854609171313401651noreply@blogger.com